Okay- so this is what gets me- If you don't understand someone, or you don't know them at all, and if they have NEVER done anything to you... Who the hell are you to go ahead and judge that person?"Let's all have a round of applause for all the perfect people out there. The people who judge other people because they don't have any flaws at all."
This morning, I had a major fall out between a friend and myself because he gave me an ultimatum to choose between himself and another friend of mine- both who I am very close to. He doesn't know my other friend at all, and was simply just giving me the ultimatum because he felt that he "didn't like" this person.
Now the problem is that I shouldn't have to choose, and because I told him this he told me never to talk to him again. That's fine by me.
At the time I was talking to his Girlfriend. She and I are pretty close- and I sent her one of the messages he'd sent me- the one about me never being allowed to talk to him again- and she overreacted saying that she thought it looked like he didn't want to be the "best friend anymore, instead, he wants to be the boyfriend" and so he texted me, saying that if he loses her as his girlfriend he will kill himself, because he'd "already lost everyone he's ever loved".
Now not only was this childish, it was a pathetic and a useless attempt to get me to choose him over my other friend. And I don't do well with manipulation- as you know with one of my previous blog posts.
This is what I have to say on the situation:
- Manipulation is a disgusting attempt at making people do what you want. It's selfish and childish.
- Using suicide as a manipulation scheme is disgusting- because there are people out there with real problems, and teen suicide is a real thing- so DON'T!
- Get the hell out of my life if you're going to give me ultimatums- I don't need to choose.
- I don't need the manipulation, so I'm done with being your friend.
Don't EVER let ANYONE judge or manipulate you into doing what they want. Remember that you are much better than that- and whatever anyone else says doesn't matter. What other people think of you and your choices is none of your business. If you are happy with the way you are living- stick to living that way, get rid of the negative influences.
If you have anything to add, please feel free to leave your comments below!!
xo'xo
The Glitch
